How Do You Know? (Spoiler: You Don’t… And That’s the Whole Damn Point)

People often ask me: “How do you know, Mia?”

How do you know when it’s time to move? To quit? To stay? To leap? To fall in love? To launch the thing To let it go?

Let me hit you with the short, spicy, soul-punchy truth: You don’t. And you never truly will. Not 100%. Not even 94.6%.

No matter how many angel numbers show up in your dreams, how many tarot spreads scream “YES QUEEN,” or how much cosmic glitter is currently flying in your favor—you still won’t really know.

You could have the most deliciously supportive environment, the softest safety net, the stablest “stable,” the Oracle of Delphi on speed dial, and guess what?

Still. No. Guarantees. Because life isn’t a quiz where you can cheat off the stars.

Life is a wild, sweaty dance floor with zero choreography—and you’re being invited to freestep your soul through the fog machine. You only know… by doing. By leaping in. Head first. Hair wild. Heart pounding.

And hands a little shaky because, let’s be honest—who isn’t slightly terrified? But here’s the real juice: you don’t need to know everything.

You just need to know YOU. Know your own truth. Know your own YES. And trust the hell out of your ability to handle whatever unfolds next. Because the truth is—everything that comes your way, whether it looks like a bouquet of roses or a flying cosmic brick—comes from Source. And Source doesn’t mess around.

So if it’s in your field, in your path, on your plate—it’s good. Even when it doesn’t look like it.

Especially when it doesn’t look like it. You came here to alchemize. To transform the mud into gold. To laugh through the chaos. To find the magic in the mundane. To become through experience. But listen carefully: You cannot half-arse your way into a full-bodied life.

The Universe reads energy. And if you’re tiptoeing around your dreams like a suspicious cat?

If you’re pretending to show up but secretly have one foot in your fear closet?

You’re gonna get the lukewarm, watered-down version of what could’ve been.

But if you go all in?

If you bring your bold, unfiltered, best-you energy to the dance floor of life?

The path WILL unfold.

The answers WILL be revealed.

The clarity WILL arrive (sometimes with glitter, sometimes disguised as chaos—but hey, clarity’s a trickster too).

The truth is: Confidence is not born from knowing—it’s built through doing. You don’t believe in yourself first and then take the leap. You leap.

And then realize mid-air… Holy shit. I can fly.

So, stop asking for signs. You’re the sign. You’re the signal. You’re the source code wrapped in skin and stardust. Now go. Leap. Love. Launch. Live. You’ve got this.

And I’ll be cheering you on, barefoot, wild-haired, whispering:

“Of course it’s gonna work. You’re the magic ingredient.”

With courage and certainty

Mia✨🌸